This is one of my favorite songs!  I'll always remember sitting & watching fireworks while this song played.  Each of my sons had their heads on my shoulders (when they were still shorter than me!).  Enjoy & have a great three-day weekend!

Haven't Been to the Grocery Store Dinner

I do love cooking, but I don't love shopping!  So I feel very accomplished when I can make a dinner from what's on hand!

This is one of those Easy, Haven't Been to the Grocery Store, What Can I Throw Together, Surprisingly Tastes Good Dinners!

I got out one of my trusty crockpots & opened the frig, freezer, & pantry.

Sliced, grilled chicken strips
1/2 bottle of Alfredo sauce
Parmesan cheese
Zesty Italian dressing
Frozen peas
Frozen carrots
Can of diced tomatoes
Salt & pepper

I dumped everything in,  & put the crockpot on low for 3 hours.  I served this Italian Chicken Soup topped with some Bruschetta Rounds from the pantry. I also set out a bowl of red & green grapes for munching.

That's one more day I can put off going to the Walmarts!

A Dad's Perspective

After I posted yesterday's article, I was checking out Facebook.  A friend of ours had posted his thoughts on keeping his children (4 teens) pure & safe.  I was very impressed & touched with what this awesome Christian dad had to say.  With Ed Allen's permission, I'm sharing his post today!  Thanks Ed!

With all of the first day of school posts that I have seen and the Miley Cyrus performance, I feel the need to say something "out loud" for my benefit and my family's benefit.

I was in the front room the other night and in run my kids wanting to watch the VMAs ... evidently Justin Timberlake is a big deal (and N'Sync was on) ... I watched patiently for a bit and did not see Miley Cyrus' (she's had a place in our house for years as Hannah Montana and is 1 year older than my oldest) performance. However, I have now heard about it and read about it and have now watched it.

IN MY OPINION: What I just watched Miley Cyrus do is TRASH of the highest magnitude. And I have seen a LOT of trash in my time. This is NOT an opinion on her talent. As a result, I feel the need to say that I want to put the whole world and the "lord" of this world on notice effective immediately ...

YOU CAN NOT HAVE MY BABIES AND I WILL FIGHT YOU UNTIL MY LAST BREATH AND WITH EVERY WEAPON AT MY DISPOSAL AND ON INTO ETERNITY FOR THEIR SOUL!

I feel and mourn for family's that lose children physically but more important to me is that I help my wife and children not lose their spiritual lives and lead our family in that way. I am not perfect, just ask my wife. But, I am horrified by what I just saw.

Take heed Mommy's and Daddy's, the Enemy wants our children and is not overtly breaking down our front doors to access them, but rather sneaking into their lives in their music, their videos and places where day in and day out he can steadily feed them his diet of filth and trash.

And to my children, if I EVER find out about an activity or action that you take part in that is contrary to the Laws of Almighty God, I WILL be pulling you physically, spiritually and (if needed) publicly off of that stage, platform, edifice or whatever other venue in which you find yourself to take you out back and re-deliver whatever lesson needs to be re-addressed.

You will NEVER, EVER NOT be my child and I love you. You will NEVER, EVER be too old, too popular or too cool to have to listen to me as your Daddy. And, as a result you will NEVER, EVER be alone in your fight with the Enemy. I love you too much.

Signed, Your "Extremely Irritated By What I Just Saw" Daddy

NOW!

Okay, so at 49 years old, I'm not that up on all the pop culture going around.  However, I do watch a local morning show that has news, entertainment, cooking, fashion, parenting, etc.  On this show yesterday & today, they showed a clip of a female "entertainer" at an awards show.  She was on stage with a male singer, in her underwear.  The "twerking" she was doing & other moves, were NOT entertainment.  They were vulgar, disgusting, & embarrassing.  I can't imagine how her family felt watching this "performance".

So, Moms, all of this has me thinking even more about what our sons & daughters are being attacked with on a daily basis.  I know a statement has been made in the past that 80% of what's on the internet is porn.  I'm thankful for the other 20%, but we have to fight against that 80% NOW!

We HAVE to teach our daughters that they have value because first of all, they are made in the image of GOD!  They have value because of who they are, their hearts & spirit.  It's NOT about how they dress & can move their bodies!  Impress on them that someday their husband will see all their past photos & videos, & talk to their friends & family.  Do they want to feel pleased about that, or ashamed?  A future husband wants to know that she belongs only to him, her body is for his delight only.  That gift starts now!  The way young ladies choose to dress, they way they carry themselves, the line that's drawn between being friendly & being provocative starts NOW!

I don't have any daughters, but someday (hopefully) I will be blessed with a couple of daughters through marriage.  I pray for these unknown young ladies NOW!  I pray that they are following Christ, drawing closer to God, & learning all they can about how to care for their husband, children, & homes.  I pray that they are keeping themselves pure in thought, speech, & behavior.  I pray that they have lots of friends, male & female, so they can learn how to relate to all.  I pray that they respect themselves, & they respect & value guys who are made in the image of GOD, & they realize that guys aren't to be ridiculed as the enemy or stupid oafs.

We HAVE to teach our sons that they have value because they are made in the image of GOD!  They have value because of who they are, their hearts & spirit.  It's NOT about how much money they have & how tough they are!  Impress on them that someday their wife will see all their past photos & videos, & talk to their friends & family.  Do they want to feel proud about that, or ashamed?  A future wife want to know that he belongs only to her, his body is for her delight only.  That gift starts now!  The way young men choose to dress, the way they conduct themselves, the line between being protective & being intimidating starts NOW!

Someday, my sons will be husbands (hopefully).  I pray for the two of them NOW!  I pray that they are following Christ, drawing closer to God, & learning all they can about how to care for their wife, children, & prepare for a career to provide for their family.  I pray that they are keeping themselves pure in thought, speech, & behavior.  I pray that they have lots of friends, male & female, so they can learn how to relate to all.  I pray that they respect themselves, & they respect & value young ladies who are made in the image of GOD, & they realize that young ladies aren't objects to lust after or ridicule.

Moms, it is time NOW to pray for our sons & daughters!  It is time NOW to pray for our future daughters & sons we'll be blessed with through marriage!

Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise. making the best use of the TIME, because the days are evil.  Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the LORD is. Ephesians 5:15-17

Movies

I am not a big movie goer.  I don't want to see every movie that comes out, in fact there are very few I want to see.

However, there are some movies that I can watch again & again & still enjoy.  I'm sure you've seen most of these, but I want to share anyway, 'cause hot summer days are perfect for settling into the AC/Fan cooled living room & enjoying a show!  So in no particular order... 

The pellet with the poison is in the vessel with the pestle,
the chalice from the palace has the brew that is true.

I know...but it has the BEST quotes!

Must be watched in order at least twice a year!

Harry Connick Jr., Sandra Bullock, music, smalltown Texas...

Watch twice a year with Kent

Unique, well-done, keeps ya guessing

Tom Hanks, Meg Ryan, great soundtrack...

So what are the movies you enjoy more than once?  

Homeschool 101 - Part D - Resources

To wrap up the week of Homeschooling Info I've listed resources that I use.  Also, remember that other homeschool moms are your BEST resources!

ORDERING –

Christian Book Distributors has most curriculums at discounted prices! 

www.christianbook.com

YWAM – Youth With a Mission carries Young Heroes, International Adventures, Christian Heroes Then & Now, Devotionals, etc.  First booth I ALWAYS go to at the Book fair!

www.ywampublishing.com

Homeschool Book Fair – Annually in Arlington Convention Center! Go & learn! Take deep breaths the first few years in the vendor hall! You do NOT need everything from every booth!  Also, check prices at CBD before going to make sure you’re getting the best deal.  www.homeschoolbookfair.org

BIBLE – First Step Bible up to age 5; Children’s Story Bible up to age 8

Easy Reader Bible up to age 12

ESV or NAS Teen Study Bible up to age 16

Chronological Bible 14+

ESV or NAS Study Bible 16+; The Bible Dictionary has been a great resource as a mom & for teens

ENGLISH –

Alphabet Island (Eagle’s Wings Educational http://www.eagleswingsed.com/) Get the complete set, it’s expensive but can be used for all your children

A Reason for Handwriting (A Beginning Advantage http://www.abeginningadvantage.com/) We used Levels A, B, T – purchased Student Workbooks only

Italic Handwriting We used Level C & D – purchased Student Workbooks only

A Reason for Spelling

Spelling Power covers several levels in one book

Progeny Press has literature study guides for all levels

Grammar Plus is great for Jr. High Grammar!

MATH –

Alpha Omega Publishing Horizons for grades 1 – 5

Bob Jones University (BJU) for grades 6 – 12

SCIENCE –

Christian Liberty Nature Readers is a great series you can find at CBD for younger kids

A Reason for Science for grades 2 – 5

BJU Science for grades 6 – 12

HISTORY –

This is probably the area with the most choices / diversity (it’s also my favorite).  Most can be found on CBD or YWAM or the library

Homeschooling 101 - Part C - Suggested Syllabus Continued

This is a suggested syllabus for 6th through 12th Grade.  Most is what I've done with our sons.  Some suggestions are what I'd use in a "do over" situation.

6^th GRADE:  Bible, Handwriting, Spelling, Reading, Math, Science, History

Bible – Ruth, 1 & 2 Samuel, 1 & 2 Kings

Handwriting – Italic Handwriting Book D

Spelling – Spelling Power

Reading – 4 Progeny Press Study Guides

Math – BJU (Bob Jones University) Grade 6

Science – BJU Grade 6

History – Middle Ages, Renaissance, Reformation; also use “real books”

7^th GRADE:  Bible, Writing, Spelling, Literature, Math, Science, History

Bible – Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Lamentations

Writing – Creative Writing (I have created a curriculum that can be emailed for $10)

Spelling – Spelling Power

Literature – 4 Progeny Press Study Guides for Jr. High (American Lit)

Math – BJU Grade 7

Science – BJU Grade 7

History – Alpha Omega Publishing Lifepac Bible Grade 8 (Bible/church history)

8^th GRADE:  Bible, Grammar, Literature, Math Science, History

Bible – Ezra, Nehemiah, Esther, Job

Grammar – Easy Grammar Plus

Literature – 4 Progeny Press Study Guides for Jr. High (World/British Lit)

Math – BJU Grade 8

Science – BJU Life Science

History – Texas History (your state history) 

FRESHMAN:  Bible, Grammar, English, Math, Science, History, Phys Ed, 2 Electives, 
         Fine Arts

Bible –Hebrews, James, 1 & 2 Peter, 1, 2, & 3 John, Jude

Grammar – Easy Grammar Plus

English – Composition / Essay Writing

Math – BJU Algebra 1

Science – BJU Physical Science

History – World & U.S. Geography (Around the World & YWAM Maps are what I combined)

Phys Ed – Health (AO Lifepac); sport or working out or…

Electives – This should be something your child is interested in & that will help them in the future (typing, home ec, Dave Ramsey’s Personal Finance, current events, Biblical Archaeology (I wrote a curriculum), etc)

Fine Arts – art or music lessons

SOPHOMORE:  Bible Literature, Math, Science, History, Phys Ed, 2 Electives, Fine Art

Bible – All of Paul's Epistles

Literature – American 4 Progeny Press

Math – BJU Algebra 2

Science – BJU Chemistry

History – BJU American History

Phys Ed, Fine Art – See last year

2 Electives – Driver’s Ed, College & Career Planner for Homeschoolers, plus 1 more elective

Plus they need 1 semester of Speech their Sophomore or Junior Year

JUNIOR:  Bible, Literature, Math, Science, History, 2 Electives

Bible – Read the Bible Chronologically

Literature – British / World 4 Progeny Press

Math – BJU Geometry

Science – BJU Biology

History – BJU World History

2 Electives - 1 needs to be ACT or SAT prep

SENIOR:  Bible, English, Math, Science, History, 2 Electives

Bible – "Proverbs the Fountain of Life" by Postive Action for Christ; Journal of Psalms

English – Research Paper; review grammar & vocabulary (BJU)

Math – BJU Consumer Math or if math/science major Trig

Science – BJU Physics or Human A & P

History – Economics (Whatever Happened to Penny Candy?); 
               Government (Notgrass Publishing) they need 1 semester of each 
2 Electives - 1 needs to be ACT or SAT prep

Homeschooling 101 - Part B - Suggested Syllabus

This is a suggested syllabus for Kindergarten through 5th Grade.  Most is what I've done with our sons.  Some suggestions are what I'd use in a "do over" situation. 

A few items carry over more than one year; I’ve listed them when started, just finish & go on to the next item listed

KINDERGARTEN:  Bible, Phonics, Reading, Math, Science, History

Bible – First Step Bible, Color Through the Bible

Phonics – Alphabet Island

Reading – Read aloud above their level, have them read what they can & to their interests 
          “I Can Read” series has LOTS of good books

Math – Kinder Math that comes with Alphabet Island

Science – “I Wonder” series, “Happy Day” series of ‘God Made’

History – “Heroes for Young Readers” series

1^ST GRADE:  Bible, Phonics, Reading, Math, Science, History

Bible – “A Child’s Story Bible”, Bible Timeline

Phonics – Alphabet Island

Reading – Same as last year

Math – Horizons 1^st grade math books 1 & 2, student books only

Science – Christian Liberty Nature Readers

History – “Heroes for Young Readers” series

2^nd GRADE:  Bible, Handwriting, Spelling, Reading, Math, Science, History

Bible – Bible Studies for Boys / Girls (Mardels or Lifeway)

Handwriting – A Reason for Handwriting Level A, B, student books only

Spelling – A Reason for Spelling Level A, B

Reading – Pick a series that your child enjoys – Little House, Anne of Green Gables,
          2:52 Soul Gear, Airquest Adventures, there are lots of classics & Christian series
         for boys & girls
Math - Horizons 2^nd grade math books 1 & 2, student books only

Science – A Reason for Science Level A, B

History – “Heroes for Young Readers” series

3^rd GRADE:  Bible, Handwriting, Spelling, Reading, Math, Science, History

Bible – Easy Reader – Matthew, Mark, Luke, John

Handwriting – A Reason for Handwriting Level B, T, student books only

Spelling – A Reason for Spelling Level B, C

Reading – same as last year

Math – Horizons 3^rd grade math books 1 & 2, student books only

Science – A Reason for Science Level B, C

History – American History – “A Child’s Story of America”; “Little Pioneers & Patriots”

4^th GRADE:  Bible, Handwriting, Spelling, Reading, Math, Science, History

Bible – Easy Reader – Acts, Revelation

Handwriting – A Reason for Handwriting Level C, D, student books only

Spelling – A Reason for Spelling Level C, D

Reading – Same as last year

Math – Horizons 4^th grade math books 1 & 2, student books only

Science – A Reason for Science Level C, D

History – American History – biographies on famous Americans & presidents 

5^th GRADE:  Bible, Handwriting, Spelling, Reading, Math Science, History

Bible – Easy Reader – Genesis, Exodus, Joshua, Judges

Handwriting – Italic Handwriting Book C 

Spelling – A Reason for Spelling Level E, F, student books only

Math – Horizons 5^th grade math books 1 & 2, student books only

Reading – 2 - 4 Progeny Press Study Guides 

Science – A Reason for Science Level D, E

History – Ancient Egypt, Greek, Rome (several options – ‘What in the World’ is good); 

          also use “real books”

 

Homeschooling 101 - Part A - Remember These Ten

School starts soon!  I 'think' we have everything ready here!  Our co-op registration is tomorrow & I can't wait to catch up with friends there!

I've had lots of moms ask me about homeschooling through the years.  I'm amused by this, because I remember being the mom who had soooo  many questions for the veteran homeschoolers!  Now as my oldest is a Senior, I realize we've been formally homeschooling for 14 YEARS.

After recreating numerous emails to answer questions, I finally created a document with as much information as I could think of to pass on to those considering, new, or just looking for something different to homeschool.  So, here is Homeschooling 101 - Part A - Remember These Ten 

FIRST, every family, every child is unique.  What works for our family, may or may not work for yours.  What works for one child in your family, may or may not work for each one.  Please take that into consideration with the recommendations that I make.  They are ONLY recommendations.

SECOND, every curriculum we have used, currently use, or plan to use has a Biblical Worldview.  Not every one has a the same Biblical view.  This means you will need to pre-read & possibly do some editing, especially with younger children.  It has been very rewarding to see our sons catch the scriptural errors.

THIRD, I strongly believe in homeschool mentors & contemporaries!  This means find some homeschool moms who have been doing this for 3 – 100 years more than you.  Ask them questions, & filter what they say for how that works for your family. Also, have some friends that are currently homeschooling children close to the same age as yours.  These will be the ones who will laugh & cry with you (sometimes at the same time!).  Also, know that life & families change & grow; the mentors / contemporaries that you start with will also change along your journey. Treasure them all!

FOURTH, I have not found one curriculum / publisher that works for every subject for every grade.  Mix & match & adjustment has worked for us.  Be willing to switch as your children grow & change.  Research online, through others, & at the homeschool book fair, but don’t obsess over products that teach basic knowledge.  It may take a while as your children grow, but YOU will know what will work best for them. 

FIFTH, homeschooling does NOT have to be expensive; some families do the majority of their work through the library.  I have lots shelves of books that I’m willing to loan; & so do many other homeschoolers.  Swapping and/or reselling has worked great for us & many other families.  Also, having your children write on notebook paper instead of in a workbook is a great way to save money.  The Bible & “real books” are wonderful resources.

SIXTH, enjoy the journey! Sometimes you will want to put them on the nearest school bus.  Take a mommy timeout & PRAY!  God has given us everything we need for life & godliness & this includes discipling & educating our children.  Remember this is more than them learning their ABC’s & 123’s.  This is about them growing into a real, personal relationship with God; learning about life while you are there to guide them; learning how to handle temptation, sin, & disappointment by seeing your example; learning how to be a godly, productive person in society; learning how to relate to people of all ages & stages, not just their “peer group”.  Look to Jesus’ example of discipling as a model – he was with them every day, all day, in all situations – teaching, living, interacting with them & others & God.  Our children are our disciples that God has blessed us with!

SEVENTH, when you hear or read something that really speaks to you: write it down!  These are great for when you need encouragement or a reminder of “WHY am I doing this?” Also, pass them on to other moms.  Live the Titus 2 life; there is always someone older / more experienced that you can learn from.  There is also always someone younger / less experienced who can learn from you.

EIGHTH, you are raising your own friends.  Again, this isn’t just about education, it is so much more about relationships - parent / child; siblings; most importantly with God.

NINETH, don’t feel you have to know everything about everything.  Teach your children how to learn, how to discuss, how to ask questions.

TENTH, read God’s Word & Pray.

HomeSchooling

I have four posts on homeschooling ready.  Lots of moms have asked questions in the past, so I put it all together into "Homeschooling 101".  Next week I'm sharing it here & can't wait to read your comments!

For now, I wanted to share a few quotes on education.

Great advice for HomeSchool Moms!!

Have a great weekend!

Aunt Joyce

This is my Aunt Joyce with some her great-grandchildren.  Aunt Joyce is one of my mom's sisters & lives in Kansas  Since she lived close to my grandparents, her home was one of our gathering places.

Aunt Joyce has always loved & enjoyed children!  Her own three daughters, many nieces & nephews, grandchildren, & great-children.  She exemplifies God's love for children with her life!

But Jesus called them to him, saying, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Luke 18:16

Come, O children, and listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the Lord. Psalm 34:11

Her children rise up and call her blessed. Proverbs 31:28

I get to travel with my mom & Cousin Connie to visit Aunt Joyce next week!  I can't wait to see her & visit.

Please pray for my Aunt Joyce, as she's fighting lung cancer at this time.  We trust in the Lord & know he hears our prayers!

Some of My Favorite Quotes

Great man who has brought change to millions

I'm satisfied with just a cottage below

Silly Ole Bear

The greatest of these is Love

My Favorite Brother

"Jeerrryyy, did you know you're my FAVORITE brother?"
"Lil Sister, I'm your ONLY brother."
"But if I had a 100 brothers, you'd still be my FAVORITE."
(Sigh) "What do you want?"

My brother, Jerry, & I have had this conversation many, many times through our lives!  Usually cause I needed a favor, wanted to borrow something, or help with a challenge.  ALWAYS for the last 49 years, my Big Brother has come through for me!

Jerry is an awesome brother, a wonderful friend, a trustworthy confidant, a fun companion, a lover of trivia, a terrific dad to his daughter, & the best uncle for my sons!

Our relationship has always been close, & we only had a couple of years of fighting when we were growing up.  He is truly the one I can call at 3 AM & say, "Big Brother, I need you."  His only response would be, "I'm on my way."  The great thing is, it's a two way street!

I'm always so sad when I here that someone has lost a sibling.  That's a loss of a large part of your childhood & who you are.  Your parents have memories through the eyes of an adult.  But, your sibling shares the memories through the eyes of a child!

Yesterday was Jerry's birthday & mine is this Saturday.  We've always had the tradition of calling each other EARLY on our birthdays.  That way, we're the first one to say or sing Happy Birthday.  We have celebrated our birthdays together for most of our lives & wouldn't have it any other way!  It makes the celebration even more special to share it with my Big Brother!

"Jeerrryyy, did you know you're my FAVORITE brother? You are, ALWAYS!"
Happy Birthday! Love, Ding

Recipe Ideas: Here's What's for Supper!

One of my very favorite, could eat any time, several days a week . . . MEXICAN FOOD! Specifically, good ole TEX MEX!  It's one of my 'love languages'.  Today I'm fixing a double batch of everything to share with some sweet friends who have just moved.  So the amounts will feed 8 - 10, just adjust to however many people you need to serve.  Also, seasonings are to taste.

Supreme Nachos
1 large bag of white or yellow corn tortilla chips
1 large container of lite sour cream
Taco Queso (below)
Refried Beans (below)
Guacamole (below)

Let each individual build Supreme Nachos in their own dish.

Taco Queso (YUM)
 Brown 4 lbs of ground beef, while cooking add salt, minced onions, cumin, & chili powder
Drain & place into a crock pot.

Add 2 lbs of Velveeta (cubed)
2 cans of Rotel (1 mild, 1 original)
1 c of shredded 'Fiesta' cheese mix

Heat on high for  30 min, reduce to low for an hour, & then put on keep warm until ready to eat.

Refried Beans (Pretty basic) 
2 cans of fat free refried beans
1 lg can diced green chilies

Mix & heat on stove or microwave.

Guacamole (Sam's version)
4 avocados (peel & cube)
minced garlic
minced onion
2 tomatoes (diced)
2 jalapenos (remove seeds & ribs, minced)

Put all ingredients in a bowl.  Mash with two forks.  Should be creamy yet chunky.

Mexican Bean Salad (Howard & Annette's favorite)
2 bags of romaine lettuce mix
2 tomatoes (diced)
1 bell pepper (remove seeds & ribs, diced)
2 cans of light red kidney beans (drained)
1 bag of original Frito's
1/2 c. of shredded 'Fiesta' cheese mix
 2 tsp. of chili powder
1 bottle of Lite Catalina Dressing (I use Kraft)

Toss all ingredients together in a large bowl.

Sopapilla Cheesecake (Kent loves it) 

2 cans of crescent rolls (I use the Grands style) 
3 8oz pkg cream cheese (fat free) 
1 c splenda 
1 t vanilla 
¼ c lemon juice 
Melted butter 
Cinnamon sugar

Press 1 can of rolls into a 9X13 baking pan.  Press seams together.

Mix cream cheese, splenda, vanilla, & lemon juice together.  Spread over dough.

Place the other pkg of rolls over mixture.  Press seams together

Brush melted butter over top of dough.  Sprinkle with cinnamon sugar.

Bake at 350 for 30 min.  Best when warm!

 

Not. A. Good. Idea.

My sons were out of town for 4 of the last 7 weeks.  That's hard on a homeschool mom who's used to having them around!  Of course, every trip was with the church, so I'm very happy they had the opportunities to go!

My Andy is a Senior & he'll turn 18 in 5 months.  He's our first child & has brought laughter & sunshine into our home!  Andy graduates Homeschool on May 2, 2014.

Every May, our church has a recognition night for graduating seniors.  Part of this night is a Power Point presentation that parents put together of  photos & a message.  So . . . because I plan ahead, & because I know that more time is available this summer, than next spring . . . I decided to start going through photos.

Not. A. Good. Idea.

My son has gone from this...

To this...

 To this...

And now...

Again, going through photos of my baby while he's gone & I'm missin' him...Not. A. Good. Idea.